Using and Abusing – The latest Take Him With You Podcast

Posted: March 14, 2009 in Cool Stuff just for you

Here are the notes for Using and Abusing Podcast #031509 The direct link is here…. Things start out with a promo for the upcoming audio drama for Easter. It’s a two part special called “Beaten to a pulp” It will be on April 5th and 12th.


Then a quick shout out to the geeky girls of anomaly podcast. RICK’S HOUSE Our turtle finally ate. Yay. No dead turtles in the tank. 🙂 twoturles

Perhaps I could feed him pizza or something… wait, that’s a different TMNT. We haven’t heard anything from the Biggest Trekkie Contest yet. Oh well, it was fun to enter. We talk about some T.V. shows like LOST, 24, HEROES, and more… Send me your comments on the tv shows I mention please!!!! I have been watching a new show on the food network called Chopped.


Why do men love remote controls. . here is my little baby….


Amy is going to be with me on the 29th of March, so get ready, it’s called “You’re a cool chick!”


Then a little shout out to my good friend Rico from Treks In Sci Fi! What a great podcast and cool friend. banner106

WORDS OF WISDOM The words of wisdom this episode come from the book of Romans Chapter 12

3 Because of the privilege and authority[c] God has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us.[d] 4 Just as our bodies have many parts and each part has a special function, 5 so it is with Christ’s body. We are many parts of one body, and we all belong to each other. 6 In his grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. So if God has given you the ability to prophesy, speak out with as much faith as God has given you. 7 If your gift is serving others, serve them well. If you are a teacher, teach well. 8 If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly. 9 Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them.

I talk about the new weekly newsletter that Amy and I putting out. Would you sign up for it? newsletterimage


Using and Abusing. We talk about the difference between believing, and believing. Sometimes we can learn relationship styles from the folks we hang around. I can stoop to low levels to get what I want, but it doesn’t help the people around me. We should treat people with respect and love. People shouldn’t be used or abused. Sometimes good people are taken advantage of because of their loyalty and need to be needed. Our self image should come from God, not comparing ourselves to each other. We shouldn’t just tolerate people, we should celebrate them. Narcissist means selfish. Like the Wraith from Stargate Atlantis.


They fed on the energy and the life of others to survive. Much like people who use and abuse us.

Some people never grow up emotionally and tend to treat others badly.

Hurt people, hurt people.

When we treat people like objects we are violating them. It is so important to treat people with respect, without getting walked on.

Remember the bully on the playground? Many times they don’t grow up either.

Here is a good website on bullies and how they grow up into the world we live in. The bully institute

1. God gave us a free will, he won’t make us be nice, we have to choose that.

2. We were never intended for abuse. God created us to be used by Him, not others.

3. God can give us strength if we ask Him for it. Let’s not use and abuse people.

Give some folks some grace. Are there people in my life that are abusing me?

Perhaps I should change some of my friends. Show me your friends and I’ll tell you what you think about yourself. Here is a song I wrote called “Everything but you” Here are the lyrics:

Everything but you

by Rick Moyer

Hurting deep inside of me the loneliness it screams

another time and place of night disillusioned of my dreams

Here I am again it’s down to just us two

stripped of all that is familiar I’ve lost everything but you

Everything but you

What could have been is not The story didn’t play

When mans intervention ruins the form made from the clay

Here I am again it’s down to just us two

stripped of all that is familiar I’ve lost everything but you

Everything but you

I guess it’s not the worst it could be my choice it makes my place

I either go down in bitterness or embrace your loving grace

Here I am again it’s down to just us two

stripped of all that is familiar I’ve lost everything but you

Everything but you

Father please forgive them for they know not what they do

tearing up inside of me makes me open up to you

Here I am again it’s down to just us two

stripped of all that is familiar I’ve lost everything but you

Everything but you

You, You, You

Everything but you.

You can download the song here


We briefly talk to God and I introduce next week’s podcast called “The meaning of life” It’s all on how a year later my life took a new direction. Then I give a shout out to Knights of the Guild!


I talk about the cool music I have been making for the Ready Room podcast. I also ask if you would be willing to subscribe to our newsletter or help out with the podcast by making a donation. If everyone gave a little, we would have more than enough to pay the bills and encourage you each week! THANK YOU! Thanks to everyone who has given and helped with podcast, Amy and I appreciate you very much! Bless you! Don’t forget the cool new audio drama coming up.


Make some comments, I would really appreciate some feedback! See you on Wednesday for the mid week booster shot! Here is the direct link to this week’s podcast.


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